You can love your parents and still want something different. She's navigated both.
No right way to be adopted. There's only what's actually true for you.
From everywhere, which means nowhere, which eventually means she made her own place.
For when coming out isn't possible — your safety is the ground, your timeline is yours.
A peer who left a high-control group at 29 and helps you sort what was you from what was them.
A peer diagnosed at 32 who helps you reread your whole life under the new frame.
She doesn't know her original form. She chose what she is now. She likes it.
Your skills don't care what industry you learned them in. He'll help you translate.